Three body language tips, plus a bonus, to instantly be more attractive!
Like it or not, people are making snap decisions about you all the time. Oftentimes they do it without even letting you speak. There are 3 subtle things that you can do to be more attractive with your body language – nothing to do with what you’re saying.
The first one is something that people do wrong and that is T-Rex arms. I’m gonna illustrate this with a story because I think it’s the easiest and one of the most vivid ways which I learned it. I was in Las Vegas with a friend of mine. I lived there; he came in to visit and if you’ve ever been to a Las Vegas Club, it can be overwhelming.
We got into this club, it was just the two of us. Instantly, I see his body language lock down and he starts to get uncomfortable. To his credit he sees a group of women and walks up to say hello. It didn’t go well; his lack of confidence shone through and they disappeared within pretty much 15-30 seconds.
I said, “It’s alright, man. Don’t sweat it. We’ll have fun on the dance floor.” We go to the dance floor and the same lack of confidence shines through; he’s not moving very much. He’s kind of dancing in this little box like a T-Rex.
Body language tips:
0:19 First body language that’s done wrong is the T-Rex arms
2:25 Second body language that’s done wrong is the seeking behavior
5:48 When groups go out
7:16 As a bonus body language tip, smiling