Video and content by Dan Bacon

If a beautiful woman is insecure or shy, it doesn’t really matter to the majority of men.

Most men will still find her attractive and want to be with her even though she is a bit insecure or shy.

However, the same doesn’t apply for a woman’s attraction to a man.

Women are attracted to the emotional strengths of men such as confidence, high self-esteem and self-assuredness and turned off by emotional weaknesses such as insecurity, self-doubt and shyness.

What you may have noticed is that confident guys can easily attract women to get laid or get a girlfriend, whereas shy guys have a difficult time getting anywhere past the friend zone.

Some shy guys can get laid or get a girlfriend, but they don’t really have their choice of women because their emotional weakness turns most women off.

9 signs of insecurity that turn women off are:

  1. Unable to maintain eye contact
  2. A loss for words and then appearing nervous or unsure of himself
  3. Doubting that she could ever like a guy like him
  4. Communication that lacks confidence
  5. Being afraid to express his true personality
  6. Giving his power to her
  7. Trying to impress her by talking about his achievements or possessions
  8. Displaying tense or nervous body language
  9. Being unable to pass her simple confidence tests

Some women do like an insecure guy, but let’s be honest those women are usually unattractive, or will dump him if they find a more confident guy.

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